Feeling through the pain

Feeling Through The Pain:
By: Diane Lang

 – There are times that we need to stay in our emotions, even if those emotions are sadness, anger, hurt and/or fear.
– You need to stay there until feel that you can’t take it anymore.
– If we zip through the feelings and the pain, they will come back without the lesson needed.
 -We can’t heal until we feel, really feel it.
 -Spending days in your emotions can really help you to understand what you are feeling, why you are feeling it and healing through it.
 -When I spend a few days (or whatever it takes) in my emotions, a time comes when I have had enough and don’t want to feel that way anymore. It’s a turning point of growth.
-This shift allows me to go from feeling to taking action.
-It allows me to answer, “Why am I here again?”
-“What didn’t I deal with?” “What didn’t I feel?”
-“What changes didn’t I make and need to this time?”
-If it’s a pattern then I can figure out, what changes do I need to make to break it?
-I can’t answer any of these questions or shift my thought process until I have spent the time needed in the pain.

Tuesday, April 18, 7pm – Living a Mindful Life
Emerson Community School, NJ
Phone: 201-262-5502

Wednesday, April 19, 7pm – I Am Enough – Learning to Love Yourself Again
Ramsey Adult School, NJ
Phone: 201-327-2025

Thursday, April 20, 6:30pm – Finding Your Passion
Montclair Adult School, NJ
Phone: 973-744-0500 ext 2224

Tuesday, April 25, 7pm – Life after Retirement
Morristown Community School, NJ
Phone: 973-292-2063

Wednesday, April 26, 7pm – Dealing with Loss
Morristown Community School, NJ
Phone: 973-292-2063

Thursday, April 27, 10:30am – I Am Enough – Learning to Love Yourself Again
Montclair Adult School, NJ
Phone: 973-744-0500 ext 2224
As a Therapist, Educator and Positive Living Expert, Diane has dedicated her career to helping people turn their lives around and is now on a mission to help them develop a sustainable positive attitude that can actually turn one into an optimist, literally.
Through her two books, “Creating Balance & Finding Happiness” and “Baby Steps: the Path from Motherhood to Career.”  Diane has been speaking and empowering parents and adults nationwide. She is also an Adjunct in Psychology at Montclair State University, where her college work includes mentoring students for personal issue advisement.
As an expert in her fields of therapy, Lang has been featured in the Daily Record, Family Circle, Family Magazine, Working Mother Magazine and Cookie Magazine, seen on NJ 12 TV, Good day CT, Style CT, The Veira Network, CBS TV and “Fox & Friends”.  She has also participated in a reality based Internet show, ourprisoner.com, hosted Generation X-tinet. In addition Lang writes a blog for Pazoo.com.

About Finding your happiness

Diane Lang is a Therapist, educator, author and life coach. Diane has two books: Baby steps the path from motherhood to Career and Creating balance & finding happiness. Diane works as a Therapist and also is an adjunct at Montclair State University. This blog will help educate and empower you to live your best life! For more information please visit her website: www.dlcounseling.com
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3 Responses to Feeling through the pain

  1. nessa3 says:

    Where is the balance in letting yourself feel and getting stuck, consumed, depressed?
    I struggle with expressing my emotions,have had so many mixed messages …I dont know what to feel, what to do with them.

    • If you don’t feel the emotions a situation, person causes than your stuck. You will be stuck in the pain, hurt, anger, etc.
      YOu need to work through it and get to the other side.
      Remember, you need to feel to heal.
      Is it painful? Absolutely but it does get better.
      What is down must go back up.

      • Also remember, every experience whether painful or not is a learning experience. Use your pain to find out what the lesson is. Why you repeat patterns that cause pain. What is the belief behind it?

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